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The Starfish Sisters

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From the USA Today bestselling author of When We Believed in Mermaids comes an emotional novel about two women facing the betrayals, heartbreaks, and refuge of true friendship.

Phoebe and Suze used to be closer than sisters. Growing up in a quiet and wildly beautiful coastal town in Oregon, they shared everything. Until the secrets they couldn’t share threatened their bond and complicated their lives.

Now, decades later, Suze, a famous actress desperate for safe haven following a brutal attack, is back in town. Phoebe, a successful illustrator and fabric designer, has discovered keeping a secret means she can’t let anyone get close, aside from her beloved granddaughter, Jasmine. As Jasmine’s move to London looms, Phoebe doesn’t know how to face the return of her old friend and all the drama she brings.

But Phoebe let Suze down once before and she’s not sure she can do it again. Can the two women who’ve never confronted their past do it now when the choice is between healing and survival?

Heartfelt and layered, The Starfish Sisters is a moving story about the complicated nature of female friendship, the joys and heartbreaks of life, and the resiliency and power that women possess.

344 pages, Kindle Edition

First published July 25, 2023

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Barbara O'Neal

25 books3,649 followers
Barbara O'Neal is the Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, and #1 Amazon Charts bestselling writer of women's fiction. She lives in Colorado with her partner, a British endurance athlete.

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Profile Image for benedicta.
348 reviews477 followers
October 29, 2023
I was approved for a copy of this book and I couldn't have picked it up at a better time. It has a lot in common with my previous read.

This is also domestic fiction and has a coastal setting. It also has its own niche and personality which explores the layers of female friendships along with its bliss, betrayal and heartbreak.

The story is written from two perspectives, Phoebe and Suze who met at the age 12 and immediately found they were the missing half of each other. They grew up apart but shared a diary where Phoebe would write and send it back to Suze so she'd read and write back too. The cuteness >>> 🥺😍😍.

The story is told in two timelines, the girls as teens and the girls decades later. So many years have passed, Suze still thinks about how series of Phoebe's actions in their younger years disappointed and hurt her. Can Suze learn to trust Phoebe again if these two soul sisters don't confront their past?

This is emotional and engaging. For the most part of it was so relatable 😭 because everyone knows friendship heartbreak hurts so much worse than relationship heartbreak 💔💔

thanks to netgalley, the author and publishers for providing me a copy in exchange for an honest review 💜
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540 reviews212 followers
September 19, 2023
"When We Believed in Mermaids" was a stunning book, so I was happy to read another one by this talented author. It was emotional with so many betrayals and heartbreaks separating two friends. When Phoebe and Suze met as children, they blossomed to adults, but their friendship could not hold up to the strain of so many obstacles. I loved Phoebe's grandmother,Beryl, who was a catalyst to their bond. She owned a home in the coastal town in Oregon where her granddaughter Phoebe visited in the summer. When Suze moved there with her evangelist father after her mother died, she needed a motherly figure and found it in Beryl.
Suze's father was a horrible man outside the pulpit, beating her until she was hospitalized. He was controlling and old-fashioned. He made her dress in an outdated manner and would not allow her to socialize or participate in the school play. Her life takes a turn for the worse, but she finds herself in love with a boy that Phoebe also likes and then their great divide comes.
It is written in two timelines: Then and Now. Now Phoebe is a successful illustrator and designer. She has a daughter Stephanie and her granddaughter Jasmine.
Suze has made it big with her talent as a famous actress. She returns to her old town where memories haunt her, but her resilience and power shows her healing and survival skills. This is heartfelt, yet complicated. Their childhood was powerful and captured the joy and need for friendship and the loss that occurs or can suffer irreparable damage unless we allow forgiveness to guide us.
I enjoyed the audio narrated by Laura Jennings, Jenn Lee, Shaun Taylor-Corbett.
Profile Image for Karren  Sandercock .
969 reviews233 followers
September 9, 2023
Phoebe and Suze are twelve when they meet in a small coastal town in Oregon, famous for the sea stacks known as the Starfish Sisters, Suze has recently moved there with her father an evangelist preacher and Phoebe visits her grandmother Beryl in summer.

Phoebe and Suze become best friends, they considered themselves sisters, and they share their teenage troubles, hopes and dreams. Suze’s home life is terrible, her father makes her dress in old fashioned clothes and he won’t let her cut her hair, his punishments are extreme and she’s an outsider at school. The girls keep in contact via Beryl, Suze's father wouldn’t approve of her writing to a friend and he won’t let her be in the school play.

Decades later, Suze is a famous actress, she’s starred in movies and on television and she’s attacked out the front of her house in Hollywood Hills by a member of a racial white supremacist sect. Phoebe is a successful book illustrator and fabric designer, she’s divorced and lives in Beryl's cottage. Her daughter Stephanie has been offered a job in London, Phoebe is dreading her two girls moving overseas and she loves spending time with her granddaughter Jasmine and like her she did with Beryl.

Phoebe and Suze had a falling out, Phoebe knows Suze will be struggling from the attack, it will bring up memories of her childhood and living with her father. Phoebe holds out the olive branch to Suze and visits her house overlooking blue cove, this means both women have to confront things that happened in their friendship and both reconnect with men who they knew as teenage girls, Phoebe with Ben and Suze with Joel.

I received a copy of The Starfish Sisters by Barbara O’Neil from Lake Union Publishing and NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. The dual timeline narrative delves into the two main characters friendship over the years, how it ebbs and flows, both have experienced heartbreak, and Phoebe feels guilty because she kept a secret from Suze and she was jealous.

I really admired Suze’s character, once a broken, shamed teenager and she vowed to stand up for other girls in her position, speak up and use what happened to her to bring about change. Five stars from me, a story about the power of friendship, with age comes wisdom and it’s never too late to make things right. I'm keen to read Ms. O'Neil's previous book, When We Believed in Mermaids and I can see why she's a best selling author.
Profile Image for Casey Reads ✨.
217 reviews85 followers
August 11, 2023
It was a beautifully written book. It made me jealous of Phoebe and Suze’s relationship and at the same time, I also didn’t want to be in their shoes.

Phoebe was a very selfish and jealous character. I do believe she had love for Suze, but her love was very selfish. She was always jealous of Suze, even though Suze went through way more horrible and traumatic things in life. Suze may have ended up with a more outwardly successful life, but she still went through the most trauma by far. It was at times hard to listen to what Phoebe was thinking.

There was some exciting twists and turns. I would say this book was really like a 3.5 to me and that is not because it wasn’t good, it just wasn’t the type of story I would normally read. I think this would be a good story for someone who is in their 50’s and up to read, because they will understand the feelings better.
Profile Image for Kristan Higgins.
Author 48 books11.8k followers
November 7, 2023
A gorgeous, perfectly woven story of a friendship of a lifetime, its demise and resurrection, The Starfish Sisters is a wonderful read. Two teenage girls meet on the coast of Oregon—Phoebe, who visits her grandmother each summer, a refugee of her parents difficult marriage, and Suze, who lives there year-round with her abusive, religious father. The girls are soul-mates, and one of the most rewarding things about this book was that message—family of choice and the immense power of female frienship. There’s a rift, of course, but Suze, now an iconic actor, returns to the coast after a brutal attack. Phoebe is there, waiting, helpful and hopeful that the closeness they once shared can be found again. An old flame, healing the scars of the past and present, and a message of hope make this book as soothing and welcome as a rainy day after a drought.
Profile Image for Keeley Nickelson Greenfield.
303 reviews2 followers
August 10, 2023
I’ll never forget when Molly told me “there’s just a lot of average books out there.” This was one of those average books. Long gone betrayals that people should get over and not enough interesting things or character development to really care. Not bad but somewhat boring.
Profile Image for Taiga.
3 reviews
April 25, 2023
I was honored to be selected to receive an advanced copy of The Starfish Sisters. I loved this story. Barbara O’Neal is one of my favorite authors and this one did not disappoint. I couldn’t put it down once I started reading, I was on an emotional rollercoaster. The story was very relatable. I highly recommend that you add this to your cart when it becomes available September 1 2023. Life’s too short — find peace and forgiveness whenever possible 💕
Profile Image for Linda ~ *Chatcozy*.
1,310 reviews14 followers
August 10, 2023
This story turned out to not be what I was expecting. I didn’t enjoy the more graphic details. I thought there was too much drama between Daphne and Suze, the two main protagonists. There was too much turmoil for me.
Profile Image for Ashley W.
794 reviews17 followers
September 8, 2023
Thank you, Netgalley!

I have mixed feelings. I think this story had a lot of potential. The characters were well defined and I loved the idea of a beach setting (which is what drew me to the book), but the story itself was lacking.

Somehow this book managed to be 98% exposition and 2% plot.

That is to say... nothing really happened. It seemed that O'Neal was trying to do too many things in too few pages.

>The dual POVs
>Jumping back and forth in time
>Storytelling and letters
>The abusive, religious zealot father
>The great grandmother
>The bickering then divorcing parents
>The hippies at the house
>The entire Joel (past and present)
>Ben romance
>The LNB attacks
>The pregnancy

Among a number of other plot lines. It made the entire book seem shallow because there wasn't enough on any subject to get invested. Any one of those would have made for a good story, but thrown together, it felt messy.
Profile Image for Lynn Cahoon.
Author 93 books2,114 followers
September 3, 2023
I finished this book last night in bed reading on my phone. I just couldn't stop. I loved the intense relationship between the two girls/women. And the way we pass our fears, hopes, and dreams on from one generation to the next.

The secrets they held from each other were small but after so many years, a small secret becomes a burning lie. Add in a nice mixture of 70's nostalgia in the two timelines and the story took me back.

The setting was magical, I'm a sucker for an Oregon coast story, and the men, the heroes that don't come to save them, but instead, complete them. Swoon.
33 reviews
August 19, 2023
For fans of Barbara O’Neal, her latest book, “The Starfish Sisters“ will probably be greeted with great anticipation. She is good at what she does.. I have enjoyed reading some of her books, and looked forward to this First Reads choice. Ms. O’Neal specializes in books about female relationships, which are all extremely intense. This one seems to have a really thin plot and far too much in the way of alternating time lines. This device has become over-used and often interferes with the flow, causing too many instances of “whose voice is this, and when is it happening?”

I would like to give this book 2 1/2 stars.
744 reviews117 followers
September 14, 2023
This was a solid 4 star read for me until the last 1/5th of the story. Then the tone seemed to change in a way that I found jarring. It wasn't that I disliked the ending, it went the way I suspected. It was just the tone that makes me give this a 3.5 star.
Profile Image for Elizabeth.
794 reviews
September 13, 2023
Thanks to NetGalley and Lake Union Publishing for my ARC in exchange for my honest review. This book was published July 25, 2023.

This is the first book that I’ve read by this popular author even though I’ve had “When We Believed in Mermaids” on my TBR list for years.

The book sounded promising - female friendship and betrayal with the Oregon coast as the setting. I may be in the minority here but I thought this book was a mess. I was bored until the last 10% of the book where there was finally some plot revealed. I didn’t really care about either character nor all the side sub-plots.
18 reviews
November 28, 2023
I thought it was unrealistic to keep one's lie a secret for 40 years because one thinks the friendship is too fragile to withstand the truth while at the same time regarding one's best friend as close as a sister and maintaining the friendship all that time.

Also unrealistic, that Suze did not have the curiosity to ask her best friend about an "old friend" or look him up on social media or anywhere on the internet for 40 years.
234 reviews1 follower
October 17, 2023
This is the first book I’ve read by this author, and I have no inclination to read another one. Obviously I’m in the minority but I thought the story line was thin and the writing was all over the place. Maybe it was the changes in times and characters as I was listening to the audiobook. Still, I didn’t care about the characters at all, the terrorist subplot seemed too far-fetched, and the resolution of problems just felt too mundane/predictable. The last 10% was somewhat better, but overall I was disappointed.
Profile Image for Lynn Peterson.
941 reviews59 followers
December 2, 2023
4.5. What a wonderful endearing strong book about women. The friendships we have, the strengths and weaknesses we possess and all the hurts we put on ourselves and others. Two women who grew up in such opposite families and are best friends. Secrets and long kept lies add to this wonderful story.
Profile Image for Deborah Sherman.
325 reviews1 follower
October 31, 2023
Lifelong friendships

I really enjoyed this book a lot. Suze and Phoebe become friends at a young age of twelve. They are more like sisters. Their friendship is tested over and over again. But, will it survive? It's an intense relationship between them from girls to adult women. They share with the reader their fears, hopes and dreams. A book rich emotion; I found myself unable to put the book down. Highly recommend.
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Author 21 books856 followers
August 8, 2023
I always read Barbara O'Neal's books too fast. I gulp them down instead of savoring them because I can't help myself. Her writing is so gorgeous; her characters are so rich and fascinating; her plots are so compelling. So now I'm finished with this terrific story and I have to wait another year for the next one. Sigh. This is a terrific read. Highly recommend!
May 23, 2023
Set on the brooding Oregon coast, The Starfish Sisters is an enticing novel of lifelong friendships, tangled relationships, and redemption that also includes a dash of mystery and a touch of romance.

Phoebe and Suze have been sisters of the heart since their childhood in Blue Cove, with all the ups and downs, fierce love, and petty hatreds that go with the territory. Beryl, Phoebe's grandmother, watched over and loved the motherless Suze as much as she did own granddaughter. Phoebe lived over an hour away with her parents during the school year but during summer and long weekends at her Grandmother's on the coast, the two girls were inseparable. Despite time, distance, and very different careers they've always remained in contact.

Now in middle age, Suze, an accomplished actress, returns to her Oregon cliff side house to recuperate from an attack that left her physically and emotionally drained. Phoebe, an illustrator and textile artist, now a grandmother herself and living in Blue Cove, greets that return with mixed emotions. She cares deeply for Suze and spent days at her hospital bedside after the attack, but fears that a horrendous argument after Beryl's funeral a year earlier may have caused an irreparable rift.
The book alternates between past and present, with chapters in each viewpoint, adding to deeper characterizations of Suze and Phoebe . Although the novel contains a romance for both, it doesn't overpower the core of the story--the two women and their entwined history.
The story is steeped in atmosphere and images which only adds to it's enjoyment.

I especially enjoyed the letters the girls wrote to each other and the shared diary that they mailed back and forth whenever Phoebe was away. It was an enjoyable and nostalgic look into communication before the advent of the internet and a time when long distance phone calls cost a fortune.

Thanks to Net Galley and the publisher for an ARC of the book.
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100 reviews2 followers
September 4, 2023
I really enjoyed this story a lot. I felt it touched on women in different seasons in their life and ultimately a life long friendship that endures a lot but still keeps going. It shows how we never give up on the people we love because those relationships matter and nothing is ever perfect and the what if’s don’t matter it’s the moments that matter.
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839 reviews
September 11, 2023
Phoebe and Suze met decades ago when they were twelve years old.
This is the story of their friendship and its ups and downs.
Both women have had problems in their lives and this has affected their relationship.
A slow moving, duel timeline story about two very different characters.
Thank you to NetGalley and Lake Union Publishing for my e-copy in exchange for an honest review.
Profile Image for Margie Shaw.
435 reviews36 followers
January 9, 2024
The Starfish Sisters by Barbara O’Neal is an absolutely beautiful and moving story. It’s the life story of Suze and Phoebe, two young girls that meet each other at the age of 12 and become fast friends. Although both girls live very different lifestyles, Phoebe’s grandmother Beryl connects them. Throughout the years they have managed to remain friends but because of lies, hidden truths and jealousy they have had many ups and downs. The moral to the story is that people have to learn to live with their mistakes as there’s no changing the past but they must learn to carry on and try harder to do better in the future. I really enjoyed reading this and I loved how the author brought the story to a close. It was so uplifting and it’s a book I will be recommending to all my reading friends because I know that they too will enjoy it just as much as I have. I’m giving this a 5 star rating and I look forward to reading more by Barbara O’Neal in the future.
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629 reviews30 followers
September 5, 2023
Barbara O’Neal’s latest, The Starfish Sisters, is a rich story that will touch your heart in so many ways.

What appealed to you the most in this story?

O’Neal has a way of tapping into all your emotions, while drilling straight down into the soul of her characters, and she did this with each of her characters through the theme of found family…which I can never get enough of. I loved the way Pheobe and Suze were basically sisters and how sisterhood played a part in their summers, and everything wasn’t always peachy keen. Their childhoods and teen years slowly unfold throughout the story through dual timelines, as each woman remembers different experiences and traumas, while in the present they seek to find their way back to each other.

How was the pace?

This was a slow burn character driven story.

Do you recommend this book?

This is a heartbreaking and at the same time heartwarming story about two women coming back together and coming to terms with a tragic past and realizing that they still have each other and more.

3.5 stars

Thank you, Amazon Publishing, for this gifted copy in exchange for my honest opinion.
Profile Image for Alison.
2,420 reviews42 followers
October 4, 2023
This is one of my favorite authors, never disappointing me.
This story is about two best friends, Phoebe and Suze, that grow up together in a beautiful coastal town in Oregon sharing everything about their lives and keeping in contact through a joint diary, that is mailed back and forth.
Suze grew up with a very abusive father who was a minister, and, had a hard time at school because of the restrictions her father made her follow. Phoebe, was very close to her grandmother Beryl, who was an artist, and spent most summers in the coastal town with her.
Once grown they both kept in touch, but had very different lives. Suze became a successful actor and phoebe a well known artist.
A lot happened through the years growing up to adulthood, marriages, an attack on Suze, secrets kept, people revisited, jealousies revealed and a lot of healing to work through.
A very good story.
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159 reviews2 followers
October 19, 2023
I liked the setting as it takes place in the Pacific Northwest, where I have traveled to this past summer.
The beginning of the book was intriguing, I was ready to educate myself on the Pentacoastal Church and a hate group targeting celebrities. But I quickly realized that the book was not at all about any of that, but about a friendship between two girls, including betrayal and lies.
I thought this book was boring, and I didn't care for the characters or the storyline.
2.5 stars
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183 reviews9 followers
August 27, 2023
Timeline and view points were all over the place. I often had to go back to the chapter title to verify whose perspective I was reading. Although the book shows how ugly jealousy is and the consequences of it all, for two supposedly best friends/sisters there’s no reason they shouldn’t have been truthful years ago. The plot and climax weren’t good enough for me.
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14 reviews1 follower
January 15, 2024
I enjoyed this book more than I thought I would after purchasing it on a kindle sale. It was a nice read that kept me wanting to continue reading with relatable characters and a moving story of the ups or downs of close friendships. I also enjoyed the Oregon coast setting as it’s close to home.
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