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This is an amazing and moving novel. So much so that tasks, appointments, and everything else in my life were put on hold while I read, laughed, cried, celebrated, hurt, and felt healed. Some friends once told me about a spiritual teacher who would often say, “There is magic in the telling”. The truth in those words vibrates throughout this brilliantly conceived and executed novel.
The author herself talks about the risk of a white woman telling the stories of black women living in an era of slow transition between overt, undisguised racism and a more covert and secretive racism. Yet, many white people of that time did not recognize racism for what it was: the structure of society was simply their everyday life. As long as the black people needed the jobs offered by white society, they would be subject to obeying every command, swallowing frustration, anger, and their own pride – and usually for much less than minimum wage. The consequences of not swallowing were just too dangerous.
This novel, a book about writing a book about the domestic service of black women in early 1960’s Mississippi is a finely balanced, on-the-edge story – like a tightrope walker dozens of feet above Niagara Falls. One slip, one false step, and the entire premise would collapse into the water.
Instead, there is a rare and precious authenticity to these stories that are thematically pulled together by Skeeter - the white woman determined to write the book, and Aibileen – the black domestic worker employed by one of Skeeter’s friends. And then there is Minny. Rebellious, full of anger, intelligent, wise, and good - how she was able to cope with a home life filled with conflict and carry on working fulltime besides is beyond me.
My admiration for so many of these characters started small and continued to build throughout the novel. Their lives, their experiences, their authenticity and humanity touched my soul. I will always be grateful to this beautifully crafted novel for opening my eyes and my heart to a larger perspective.
The author herself talks about the risk of a white woman telling the stories of black women living in an era of slow transition between overt, undisguised racism and a more covert and secretive racism. Yet, many white people of that time did not recognize racism for what it was: the structure of society was simply their everyday life. As long as the black people needed the jobs offered by white society, they would be subject to obeying every command, swallowing frustration, anger, and their own pride – and usually for much less than minimum wage. The consequences of not swallowing were just too dangerous.
This novel, a book about writing a book about the domestic service of black women in early 1960’s Mississippi is a finely balanced, on-the-edge story – like a tightrope walker dozens of feet above Niagara Falls. One slip, one false step, and the entire premise would collapse into the water.
Instead, there is a rare and precious authenticity to these stories that are thematically pulled together by Skeeter - the white woman determined to write the book, and Aibileen – the black domestic worker employed by one of Skeeter’s friends. And then there is Minny. Rebellious, full of anger, intelligent, wise, and good - how she was able to cope with a home life filled with conflict and carry on working fulltime besides is beyond me.
My admiration for so many of these characters started small and continued to build throughout the novel. Their lives, their experiences, their authenticity and humanity touched my soul. I will always be grateful to this beautifully crafted novel for opening my eyes and my heart to a larger perspective.
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Aqsa wrote: "Oh wow, I am so so so excited about this one! Tell me you're loving it!"
Aqsa, I just finished it and I am completely undone - in the best possible way. :)
Aqsa, I just finished it and I am completely undone - in the best possible way. :)
Debra wrote: "I hope you love this as much as I did! Happy Reading!"
Debra, I absolutely loved this one - and happy reading indeed! I have a ton of chores and other commitments to catch up on, but this book was worth putting everything else on hold for a few days. :)
Debra, I absolutely loved this one - and happy reading indeed! I have a ton of chores and other commitments to catch up on, but this book was worth putting everything else on hold for a few days. :)
Jaline, I enjoyed this wonderful novel as well. Your review conjured up some great memories of the story.
Lovely review, Jaline. I loved this book as well. For some reason, I have not been getting your reviews.
Carol wrote: "Jaline, I enjoyed this wonderful novel as well. Your review conjured up some great memories of the story."
Thank you so much, Carol, and I am so glad my review brought back great memories for you! :)
Thank you so much, Carol, and I am so glad my review brought back great memories for you! :)
Julie wrote: "Excellent review, Jaline!! So glad you enjoyed this one! 😊💖😊"
Thank you for your great comment, Julie!! 💖😊💖
Thank you for your great comment, Julie!! 💖😊💖
Bharath wrote: "Great review Jaline. I found the book very moving too.."
I noticed that you also enjoyed this one Bharath! I am glad you did - and thank you for your kind comment! :)
I noticed that you also enjoyed this one Bharath! I am glad you did - and thank you for your kind comment! :)
Antoinette wrote: "Lovely review, Jaline. I loved this book as well. For some reason, I have not been getting your reviews."
Thank you so much, Antoinette! I am not getting many friends' reviews, either - I have had to go to their Profile page and like their reviews posted there. This was taking me up to 8 hours and more a day (cutting into my reading time!) so I save the "likes" into a separate email folder and then click on the person's name and go to their profile from there. I still miss so many of them due to no notifications, and it makes me sad.
Thank you so much, Antoinette! I am not getting many friends' reviews, either - I have had to go to their Profile page and like their reviews posted there. This was taking me up to 8 hours and more a day (cutting into my reading time!) so I save the "likes" into a separate email folder and then click on the person's name and go to their profile from there. I still miss so many of them due to no notifications, and it makes me sad.
Cherie wrote: "This book was so good, I will never forget it. I am glad you liked and enjoyed it too."
Cherie, I feel the same way you do - this book will always stay in my heart, too. :)
Cherie, I feel the same way you do - this book will always stay in my heart, too. :)
Dana wrote: "This is a book I’ll always remember. Excellent review, Jaline!"
Thank you so much, Dana, and I feel the same way - that I will always remember this story and these amazing people! :)
Thank you so much, Dana, and I feel the same way - that I will always remember this story and these amazing people! :)
Tina wrote: "Great review Jaline! I'm so happy you enjoyed it so much. This is definitely a favourite of mine!"
Thank you so much, Tina, and I am so happy to hear that this is also a favourite of yours! :)
Thank you so much, Tina, and I am so happy to hear that this is also a favourite of yours! :)
Debra wrote: "Awesome review Jaline! So happy you loved it."
Thank you for coming back and reading my review, Debra! For me, this was one of those reads where it was soooo hard to put the book down!
Thank you for coming back and reading my review, Debra! For me, this was one of those reads where it was soooo hard to put the book down!
Vanessa wrote: "Incredible review. I should have READ the book before I watched the movie."
I hear you, Vanessa! I am going to let these characters and this story "settle" for a bit and then I will download the rental from iTunes. Did you enjoy the movie?
I hear you, Vanessa! I am going to let these characters and this story "settle" for a bit and then I will download the rental from iTunes. Did you enjoy the movie?
Great review Jaline!! I loved this book from beginning to end... it's so engaging! So glad you enjoyed it yourself...
Karina wrote: "Great review Jaline!! I loved this book from beginning to end... it's so engaging! So glad you enjoyed it yourself..."
Thank you so much for your lovely comment, Karina! I found it completely engaging myself - my eReader says it took me 14.7 hours to read it and since I only started two days ago, you can tell that my attachment to this book was complete! 😁💖
Thank you so much for your lovely comment, Karina! I found it completely engaging myself - my eReader says it took me 14.7 hours to read it and since I only started two days ago, you can tell that my attachment to this book was complete! 😁💖
This is such a lovely, compelling, and touching review, Jaline!
I really hope I get to love it, and enjoy it the way you did❤️
I really hope I get to love it, and enjoy it the way you did❤️
Aqsa wrote: "This is such a lovely, compelling, and touching review, Jaline!
I really hope I get to love it, and enjoy it the way you did❤️"
Thank you so much, Aqsa, for coming back to read my review - and for your wonderful comment! I am hoping exactly the same thing for you, too! 💖
I really hope I get to love it, and enjoy it the way you did❤️"
Thank you so much, Aqsa, for coming back to read my review - and for your wonderful comment! I am hoping exactly the same thing for you, too! 💖
JV wrote: "Oh, my broken heart! This book was indeed a pleasure to read! Thank you for your thoughtful and beautiful review, dear Jaline! ❤️"
Thank you so much for your warm and lovely comment, dear JV! I am so glad that you loved this one, too! 💖
Thank you so much for your warm and lovely comment, dear JV! I am so glad that you loved this one, too! 💖
Beautiful reviewJaline! This is such a stunning book in so many ways. The movie of it I felt did the novel much justice. So happy you enjoyed this gem.
There are some powerful, unforgettable scenes in this book. Happy to see we agree on how wonderful a novel it is ;-)
A super review of this awesome book, Jaline! I loved this one so much and can recall sitting on the beach getting caught up with these people and their lives several years ago. I'm not at all surprised you loved it too :)
Nice review! I truly loved “The Help.” The movie based on the book is one of the few that lives up to the book.
Maureen wrote: "Such a lovely review Jaline 🤗"
Thank you so much, Maureen! This novel really touched me in so many ways. 💖
Thank you so much, Maureen! This novel really touched me in so many ways. 💖
Ineke wrote: "Good review, Jaline. You too captured the essence of this lovely book."
Thank you, Ineke, for your lovely and kind comment!
Thank you, Ineke, for your lovely and kind comment!
Marialyce wrote: "Beautiful reviewJaline! This is such a stunning book in so many ways. The movie of it I felt did the novel much justice. So happy you enjoyed this gem."
Thank you for your wonderful comment, Marialyce - and I'm happy to hear that you felt the movie did this book justice as well. I am going to put a sticky note on my monitor to remind me to download the movie rental asap! I also agree that this book is stunning from so many angles - loved it! :)
Thank you for your wonderful comment, Marialyce - and I'm happy to hear that you felt the movie did this book justice as well. I am going to put a sticky note on my monitor to remind me to download the movie rental asap! I also agree that this book is stunning from so many angles - loved it! :)
Wyndy wrote: "There are some powerful, unforgettable scenes in this book. Happy to see we agree on how wonderful a novel it is ;-)"
Oh, me too, Wyndy! And I am also with you on the many "powerful, unforgettable scenes in this book." :)
Oh, me too, Wyndy! And I am also with you on the many "powerful, unforgettable scenes in this book." :)
Angela M wrote: "Jaline , a fabulous review. I read this a while ago but you brought back this amazing story!"
Thank you, Angela, for your very kind and encouraging comment! I enjoy reading reviews of books I haven't read yet, but it is a real toss-up because I also love reading reviews of books I have also read - especially ones I love that others love, too. Those memory-feelings are priceless. :)
Thank you, Angela, for your very kind and encouraging comment! I enjoy reading reviews of books I haven't read yet, but it is a real toss-up because I also love reading reviews of books I have also read - especially ones I love that others love, too. Those memory-feelings are priceless. :)
R * A Reader Obsessed * wrote: "Great review! This was the rare time both book and movie were equal wins!"
Yayyy, R - thank you so much for reinforcing for me that both the book and movie are winners! After being shaken up and "shook out" by this lovely novel, I am truly looking forward to renting the movie, too! :)
Yayyy, R - thank you so much for reinforcing for me that both the book and movie are winners! After being shaken up and "shook out" by this lovely novel, I am truly looking forward to renting the movie, too! :)
Candi wrote: "A super review of this awesome book, Jaline! I loved this one so much and can recall sitting on the beach getting caught up with these people and their lives several years ago. I'm not at all surprised you loved it too :)"
Thank you so much for your awesome comment, Candi! I love it that you can recall where you were and what you were doing while reading this amazing novel. I am in my 15th year living in my current home (apartment) and the last several years found me reading so many wonderful novels here that I feel I will always associate this place with those marvellous reads . . . no matter where else I might wander in the future. :)
Thank you so much for your awesome comment, Candi! I love it that you can recall where you were and what you were doing while reading this amazing novel. I am in my 15th year living in my current home (apartment) and the last several years found me reading so many wonderful novels here that I feel I will always associate this place with those marvellous reads . . . no matter where else I might wander in the future. :)